Friday, January 12, 2007

Too late…

I’ve always wanted to be loved, loved unconditionally, till the end, till I die…!
But now I’ve realised I don’t have the one whom I really love…

I’ve always wanted to make someone feel good, make someone feel loved,
But now I know someone has ruined my life…

I’ve always tried to be the favorite amongst all, tried to..
But was hurt by ones whom were close to my heart.

I’ve always wanted to be best, but the best were never wanted around,
But now I don’t want to be best, I did rather believe in having the best.

I’ve always wanted to touch someone’s heart in a special way,
And was never appreciated for that, but now I don’t want to.

I’m happy that if love didn’t grow in their heart at least it grew in mine.

Always wanted that warm shoulder to lean on, & let my tears flow till eternity

Woke up one night & realized I didn’t have anybody, but now I don’t want anybody.
Cause I am used to crying alone… all alone…

I wanted to touch the little blue stars that sparkle in the deep blue sky every night I see them twinkling away into my heart, I want to touch them now and feel them brighten my life. Every time I try, I fail but now I don’t want to cause
I know, “It’s too late…”

And last but not least
Never ever feel someone that it’s too late…

Relationship..

Once upon a time there was a boy with a very difficult character. His father gives him a bag full of nails and tells him to drive one nail in the garden fence every time he loses his patience and/or has an argument with someone. The first day the boy drives 37 nails in the garden fence. In the following weeks, the boy learns to control himself and the number of nails driven in the fence gets lower every day. The boy discovers that it is easier to learn to control himself than to hammer nails in the fence. At last, the day comes when the boy does not drive any nail in the garden fence. Then he goes to his father and tells him that today he did not need to hammer any nail. His father then tells the boy to take out one nail from the fence for every day he succeeds in controlling his temper and not loosing his patience. Many days pass and finally the boy can tell his father that he took out all nails from the fence. The father brings his son in front of the fence and tells him:
« My son, you behaved well, but look how many holes you left in the fence »
It will never be the same. When you have an argument with someone and tell him bad words, you leave him with wounds like these ones. You can stab a man and then take the knife out, but you will always leave a wound. It does not matter how many times you say sorry, the wound will stay. A wound caused by words hurts just as bad as a physical wound.
Friends are rare jewels, they make you smile and support you.
They are ready to listen to you whenever you need it, they are behind you and they open their heart to you. Show to your friends how much you love them.
Whether you are superstitious or not, read these little thoughts,
they may be useful in life:
Give people more than they expect. When you say ”I love you", mean it. when you say ”I am sorrry", look into the eyes of that person. Do not ever make fun of other people’s dreams, love deeply and with passion. You may get hurt, but it is the only way to live your life to the full. Do not offend and judge other people according to how their relatives behave

. Speak slowly, but think quickly. If someone ask you a question that you do not want to answer,
smile and ask him: ’why do you want to know?' Remember that the greatest love and the greatest success
involve the greater risks. Remember the three "Rs":
- Respect yourself
- Respect others
- Responsability for all your actions.
Do not let a small misunderstanding ruin a great friendship; when you realise you made a mistake, correct it immediately. Remember that sometimes not getting what you want
may be quite fortunate.

& last but not the least...
Love others with all the heart you can...

FRIENDS FOREVER... He said / She said..

Eight years old & they made the vow to remain friends forever.
“I need some room,” She said.
“I’ll back away,” He said

ten years old & they made the vow to give each other space.
“Does tommy like me?” She asked.
“I’ll find out.” He said.

Twelve years old & he made the vow to find out if Tommy liked her.
“He doesn’t love me anymore,” She said.
“He doesn’t deserve you.” He said.

Fourteen years old & he made a vow to love her forever.
“Nobody loves me.” She said
“I know someone who does,” He said

Sixteen years old & he made a vow to love her forever.
“I’m getting married,” She said.
“I’ll be there,” He said

Eighteen years old & he made the vow to forever hold his peace.
“I got divorced yesterday,” She said
“I’m here for you,” He said.

Twenty years old & he made the vow to be there for her forever.
“Why doesn’t anyone love me?” She asked.
“I have always loves you,” He said.

Twenty-two years old & he made the vow to keep on loving her.
“I could never love you,” She said.
“I could never stop,” He said.

Twenty-four years old & he made the vow to never love again.
“I can never see you again,” She said.
“I can never live again,” He said


Twenty-Six years old & he made the vow to never live again.
“I’m sorry,” She said.


Twenty-eight years old & he made the vow as he lay in an open casket.
__________
Always remember,
Somewhere there is someone who dreams of your smile. Someone who finds your presence worthwhile. So when you are lonely remember this---
That there is someone, somewhere thinking of you..
_______________

Keep smiling always…
You never know who is falling in love with your smile…

Footprints…

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, the other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest & saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him & he questioned the Lord about it. “ Lord you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why, when I needed you most, you would leave me.”
The Lord replied, “ My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you saw only one set of footprints, it was then I carried you.”

In real life instead of God, we get friends who carries us…
so at least make one & be one…
& always remember

Happiness isn’t the easiest thing to find, but one place you’re guaranteed to find it is in a friend’s smile,,,, :)

Choose to be happy

I believe that one of the most powerful moments in my life was the moment I realized that I had a choice! Not only do I have the power to choose my actions, but I also have the power to choose my thoughts and my moods. Nobody can make me angry. I am the one who chooses to have the experience of anger. When an upsetting event occurs, I select my response. Will it be anger and irritation, or will it be acceptance and forgiveness?

Have you ever felt at times that others have hurt your feelings?? Actually, they have not done anything to you. They are simply acting in the way they choose to act. You are the one who choose to react with hurt, anger or whatever other E-motion (energy in motion). When I find myself feeling down, I know this is also my choice. I know that I can make the conscious decision to change my feelings, and I will then experience joy and well-being. I can simply accept what is in my environment (things are what they are) and change my attitude. If you can dream it, you can do it. Choose happiness and thankfulness for life.
Believe me, you can…

Attitude….

One day a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.

On their return from the trip,
The father asked his son, “ How was the trip?”
“ It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.
“Oh Yeah” said the son..”
“So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.

The son answered,
“ I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us – they have friends to protect them.”

With this the boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “ Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we really are.”

Too many times we forget what we have and concentrate on what we don’t have.
It is all based on one’s ATTITUDE.

And remember:

It is our attitude and not aptitude that determines out altitude in life..